Why to carry a load on back? Neither we're meant for it nor we are made to fit in with it. A bag full of hatred, doubts, discomfort, foul play, misinterpretation and anything harsh than this, is carried by us throughout our life, with no dumping site to let that trash be thrown.

May it be your thousand deeds that strikes right but if a single deed seemed uncomfortable to one, be ready for a zero being slammed at your face, irrespective of whatever feathers you had on your hat. The 'one' mentioned above are those who overexpect & try to place themselves in the superiormost order which they don't deserve to be. They over expect to be a database containing every whereabout.

Since not all skin products are meant all skin types, you rely on some which won't cause pigmentation & allergies, same is the case with people around you, you rely on some at times but if you won't at times, they'll not leave a stone unturned to turn as bitter as they can.  And the harshest part here too is, you can't be the best for all & so the load on your back is as good as your constant companion, with you forever, all you can do is, be selective at the very initial stage before opening up whether whom are you counting upon & is he/she worthy of listening, understanding or even they are just masters of making fuss around.

Be a 'Heera & find a 'Johri' for yourself.

Hopefully a skin care product won't sue you for it, you can count upon it, i guarantee it.

Silence can't be an answer all the time, besides the fact that silence too needs a bunch of guts to roll with. Sometimes it's your weapon, sometimes it's your hopelessness. But a constant fear traps you within. A fear of losing a long running battle with yourself, that not to lose anyone.

Maybe we won't shout aloud what state of mind we are into, all we can do is to put over a pretending smile which at least won't let anyone to judge you. That fear wasn't a part of our weakness but our strength to combat, our confidence of making the right choice and to live with it forever. Remaining silent was a solution and not something which could easily take hold of our veins, just 'coz you don't want your faith to tumble down.

If he/she mean a lot to you, probably we remain calm and composed 'coz somewhere down the line you know what it should be & what it shouldn't be. It might challenge your choice at times, or rather some elements enter the scenario which may prove you wrong or situations develop in such a way which may try to shatter you deep within. Till the time you're able to understand them, you are on the right track for sure but if you aren't, maybe a certain disconnection has been welcomed in.

Better you interact for every piece of misunderstanding being propagated, since till the time you're true, no other element can pose to cross-by or penetrate your bond.

"Kuch toh log kahenge, Logon ka kaam hai kehna" All we should count upon is what understanding you have within each other and not what others have been judging.

Understood To Be Misunderstood

Definitely no one's born so perfect to be able to express everytime what's going within the four-walled world of your instinct and probably these days the window meant for yourself to open up has become a passage to pollute the divine, pure and sparkling state of mind.

The value is decreasing, whether it be our rupee, whether it be gold or whether it be 'you'. Someday or the other we'll find that we're being treated the same as if we're the one's flowing in the mainstream, even if we are not. One face of the coin says to be absorbent and act calm towards every filth you're dipped into but to me, the other face of the coin asks to be a rebellion. Rebellion not in the sense to harm someone but for shedding off the filth we're dipped into. Believing that we're all mere puppets to be played with, excuse me! These stereotypic thoughts better fit in a trash can.

What my point is, why is everyone pushed into the pit of filth? Why is everyone sketched under the canvas of doubtfulness? It's rather too surprising to find yourself being placed next to someone whom you adore so much, respect from the depth of heart and undoubtedly you find yourself complete but the circumstances makes to worry a little that is the correct message being delivered to him/her or it's got deviated in the midway itself just because others found a factor of jealousy or took it as a play thing, which was actually a matter too sensitive.

Being honest to your own selves won't work. It's better to let your 'important halves' know about what 'drama' are they dragged into rather then zipping your mouth up and let the 'fungus' grow many folds since being true to someone is the master key to unlock the door to a successful relation till eternity. Will try to make myself more clear in the days coming by.

That Eye-opening Moment…entrance to the present being (Part 1)

Now introducing a series of events, with no limit and no fixed continuation but with some eye-opening truths of life, so here I bring the 1^st one:

Things are just not the same all the time. Maybe you won’t expect much on your behalf but the thing is that there are certain glimpses of yours’ which aren’t explored by you, experienced or realized by you but it’s surprisingly the ones near you who may catch these things.

It is so astonishing and touching to know that there stands someone behind who actually needs no explanation of yours’ to let them know what’s going inside your head. Whoa!! One thing I’m damn sure about is that none of us have the ability to play the hide & seek of thoughts with some hard to find ‘detectives’ which we actually look for throughout the span of life. Means seriously these fellows don’t even need to get deep inside, but what I know is that they have the guts to live for others & their selves. It might be so that you’re good at hiding what you actually feel or feel shy of sharing, just because you only find it comfortable to keep it up to you as you think they’ll make fun of it or you find yourself somewhere more ‘complex’ then others, but these ‘detectives’ don’t care, moreover they make you realize what wrong perception you had till now. But surely all things relies upon your selection first, and in my case still I don’t open much (seriously complex I’m, maybe out of the world :-P).

Maybe your face doesn’t speak what you’re about to say, maybe it plays a disguise for you or most probably you’re the best diplomat but all goes in vain when your mind isn’t able to fool the heart of others, you fail then & there. Everyone who is as dumb as me (sarcastically) should have such people around, at least to make us feel what we are leaving behind in haste to hide to what we actually think. Maybe I’ll remain the same, but you won’t do so that’s what I expect, I’m too lazy to do so and nor do I feel any requirement, after all I’ve got some ‘idiots’ who really understand this (blessed) and you too, go on & search for these ‘detectives’, because without them your existence isn’t worth it. So, bring it on…!!!

Don't expect...just firmly believe

The title might seem to you as boring, but wait for a while. It might change your perception. Everything happens for a purpose but understanding its worth is what depends upon you.

Recently, we were busy with our exams, loads of pressure upon our shoulders and by any means we managed to invest a large stock of time towards studies for a better return, and why not because after all it's the extreme time when once in a blue moon we put a close look towards our books, at least for the sake of exams. Now just go back in time and think about it, what we actually thought before getting ready for this mind boggling task? The answer is simple, but complex to understand. Some of us will think that it was our high expectations which made us do so but its not. Actually, your 'believe' of getting beneficial returns out of it was your main motive, getting good grades being the aim. Even i can be questioned that who am i to decide what others think or feel? Again the answer is with me, as i love being questioned. It's all about recognising your inner 'you'. Somewhat the answer is within you, but even understanding yourself is another challenging task. So getting back to the topic now, lets explore some other side of it.

It won't be an exaggeration if i even say that your likings/dislikings and followings also affect the strength of firm believe. For instance, we all connect to each other on Facebook, no doubt in it. Actually what my perception about all of us being there is that Facebook itself is the output of believe that we may like to share our thoughts, likings, etc. over that space. We even 'expect' that people like us will be there and try out different approaches to get in contact with them but it's also an undeniable fact that expectation leads to disappointments at times. Some of us would eagerly wait for replies and reactions upon posts, messages, comments and excite ourselves for it which is a natural human behaviour towards such situations, again “expectations”. But if it doesn't happen, then it pinches you deeply somewhere that you question yourself. Seriously, it happens and I'm not talking of all but just in general. So even at this social platform, believes play a pivotal role in keeping an erect mindset.

No one knows what's gonna happen next, nor youngsters care about  it...free-living generation we are. So why to be serious then or smash our head for it? But just gear up and believe that what you do satisfies you, is better for you and forget about what others expect, again I say that expectation leads to dissatisfaction/disappointment. Maybe I'm new to this space  here but I'll make a space for myself, adjust with others and that's what i believe and so we all do have some glimpses of such believes in our instinct, which needs to be handled practically. So, keep believing.....