Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Don't expect...just firmly believe

The title might seem to you as boring, but wait for a while. It might change your perception. Everything happens for a purpose but understanding its worth is what depends upon you.

Recently, we were busy with our exams, loads of pressure upon our shoulders and by any means we managed to invest a large stock of time towards studies for a better return, and why not because after all it's the extreme time when once in a blue moon we put a close look towards our books, at least for the sake of exams. Now just go back in time and think about it, what we actually thought before getting ready for this mind boggling task? The answer is simple, but complex to understand. Some of us will think that it was our high expectations which made us do so but its not. Actually, your 'believe' of getting beneficial returns out of it was your main motive, getting good grades being the aim. Even i can be questioned that who am i to decide what others think or feel? Again the answer is with me, as i love being questioned. It's all about recognising your inner 'you'. Somewhat the answer is within you, but even understanding yourself is another challenging task. So getting back to the topic now, lets explore some other side of it.

It won't be an exaggeration if i even say that your likings/dislikings and followings also affect the strength of firm believe. For instance, we all connect to each other on Facebook, no doubt in it. Actually what my perception about all of us being there is that Facebook itself is the output of believe that we may like to share our thoughts, likings, etc. over that space. We even 'expect' that people like us will be there and try out different approaches to get in contact with them but it's also an undeniable fact that expectation leads to disappointments at times. Some of us would eagerly wait for replies and reactions upon posts, messages, comments and excite ourselves for it which is a natural human behaviour towards such situations, again “expectations”. But if it doesn't happen, then it pinches you deeply somewhere that you question yourself. Seriously, it happens and I'm not talking of all but just in general. So even at this social platform, believes play a pivotal role in keeping an erect mindset.

No one knows what's gonna happen next, nor youngsters care about  it...free-living generation we are. So why to be serious then or smash our head for it? But just gear up and believe that what you do satisfies you, is better for you and forget about what others expect, again I say that expectation leads to dissatisfaction/disappointment. Maybe I'm new to this space  here but I'll make a space for myself, adjust with others and that's what i believe and so we all do have some glimpses of such believes in our instinct, which needs to be handled practically. So, keep believing.....

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