After just reading the title itself.....I want to clarify
that this blog is related to those who are also like me, but still feel that
there's a need to open up. Most of the time people regard me as rude or full of
attitude, just because I don't involve much and that too with some
'exceptions'. Even I accept that due to my nervousness at times I act weird or
according to others 'over react'. Fortunately or unfortunately, no one can just
escape this society, i.e. we have to be here only and nowhere else.
Many a times I get these comments that this shyness of mine
is the only factor which spoils my personality....otherwise everything's fine
:-P. Even my teacher’s say that a being knowledgeable is ok but today's time is
mostly for those who know how to express their selves. One of my teacher
escorts during the Surat trip also realized that there is a need to change my
attitude towards public speaking and she was the only one who made me speak for
the first time in front of teachers and parents. It's true that no one waits
for you and everybody thinks of him/herself, it's for us how we create our
importance in a gathering or community. Only those get preferences the most that
are good at expressing their selves, mix up with others and keeping aside
attitude of theirs.
Even I noticed that this thing is common in those who are
keen in studies, where they are only centered over it and not on other
activities. While talking about those who don't have interest in studies i.e.
Careless prefer to have more fun and that's the reason that they even excel in
outdoor activities or even Music, Arts and Dance. I don't criticize anyone and
I say that both of them are correct at their stands but I personally believe
that we all need to have a combination of both, where mostly support of
teachers is needed because it depends over them that what image they put up of
any student in their mind or whether they try to encourage them for it, and I
suppose yes.
Being loyal is one of the best quality for which a person is
regarded. But today I find people taking benefit of it. No one tries to be
thankful for it, but think that he/she will always be towards the positive side
of all where there is a need to understand the original aspect of the person or
what’s his motive behind it. Even I suffered from it at times and I believe
that be helpful but not too much that a person tries to overcome you. Still
there's a time for us to improve and let's not be scared of what people will
think about you.....just try to live your life in the utmost manner you
can!!!!! Carry on...... :-)
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