Why to think what others ‘think’? (Continued)

But just think why it’s a ‘NO’? I’m no one to judge but truth is truth. It’s a daily routine of ours’ to wake up with ‘ease’; dress up with ‘formality’; move out with an ‘attitude’ & come back with a hectic load of ‘unreal you’. Words seem to be so simple but did you notice again? Go back; read those words again & come back, what’s the issue? We can’t remain real to what we are, that’s what we conclude & an answer to that ‘NO’. But the things remain the same that ‘can we remain what we are?’

I’ll try to sum up in a short. We ‘social birds’ explore ‘several branches’ & try to have a taste of every ‘fruit’ available, after all so attractive it seems, but the ‘sweetness’ of those fruits unknowingly takes us away from our real being, also that ‘sweetness’ is the culprit in adding a pinch of ‘sourness’ to us & I’m pretty strong upon my point. 

Everything revolves around ‘exploring the exotic’ & this leads us to an imbalance b/w who we are and what we aren't. Choices differ, opinions differ & again it comes to put a break to my words. Ending up with some common words that it’s tough to be you literally, our involvement around makes us grab some traits which seems artificial. We keep on adopting and adapting to those surroundings, unknown to the fact that we have to return back at some point of time & then the fear raises that ‘How do I confront this unknown puzzle, a dual personality created by me?’ Even I know it’s a compulsion for us to do so and then get into a dilemma even after knowing the fact, as frankly speaking, I too have gone through this and maybe still I’m into it along with many others, you never know. So that’s all for now, stay tuned for more…!!!!

Send in your queries/comments/suggestions, after all different minds set up unique ‘mindset’………..

Why to think what others ‘think’?

People do say that sometimes it’s like I write down philosophies, stretching upon the lengths & widths of the topic, quite silly what’s harm in spreading your views, right? 

Believe me, this is a ‘realistic question’ with which everyone of us could relate that why to care about what others would think? Does it pose something very deep to us? 

What we really do when someone is about to confront us? Very first reaction is that ‘Am I looking good?’, ‘Do I need to have a better dress up?’, ‘A hair-do?’ or most common one that ‘what to talk so sensible or will I seem to be a fool in front of him/her?’ We lose our faith for a while! Surprisingly nobody notices this strange attitude. A simple reason what I think is the ‘dual personality trait’ among ourselves as we are fond of forming an ‘image’, which maybe ‘virtual’ at times but done just to prove that we are no less than the one we are confronting, at times a matter of ego too & I bet we all go through this @ some point of time.

For instance, we are with our family on an outing & suddenly spot an acquaintance or a friend of ours. What’s your reaction? At first glance we may try to ignore them, because there we are actually the one we are & in a hustle we can’t get into our ‘virtual’ character which we pose in front of them. So, we better choose to ignore, else we fear if he/she would think wrong of me.

Come on, I just don’t write philosophies, I too write something sensible at times. So have you realized something? That it was something too realistic. Very interesting part which lies here is that ‘we are fond of forming an image’, an attitude we create. Why? Can’t we live without it a minute? NOT AT ALL. Do comment over this as your opinion is valuable.

But just think why it’s a ‘NO’?

TO BE CONTINUED……….