That Eye-opening Moment…entrance to the present being (Part 1)

Now introducing a series of events, with no limit and no fixed continuation but with some eye-opening truths of life, so here I bring the 1^st one:

Things are just not the same all the time. Maybe you won’t expect much on your behalf but the thing is that there are certain glimpses of yours’ which aren’t explored by you, experienced or realized by you but it’s surprisingly the ones near you who may catch these things.

It is so astonishing and touching to know that there stands someone behind who actually needs no explanation of yours’ to let them know what’s going inside your head. Whoa!! One thing I’m damn sure about is that none of us have the ability to play the hide & seek of thoughts with some hard to find ‘detectives’ which we actually look for throughout the span of life. Means seriously these fellows don’t even need to get deep inside, but what I know is that they have the guts to live for others & their selves. It might be so that you’re good at hiding what you actually feel or feel shy of sharing, just because you only find it comfortable to keep it up to you as you think they’ll make fun of it or you find yourself somewhere more ‘complex’ then others, but these ‘detectives’ don’t care, moreover they make you realize what wrong perception you had till now. But surely all things relies upon your selection first, and in my case still I don’t open much (seriously complex I’m, maybe out of the world :-P).

Maybe your face doesn’t speak what you’re about to say, maybe it plays a disguise for you or most probably you’re the best diplomat but all goes in vain when your mind isn’t able to fool the heart of others, you fail then & there. Everyone who is as dumb as me (sarcastically) should have such people around, at least to make us feel what we are leaving behind in haste to hide to what we actually think. Maybe I’ll remain the same, but you won’t do so that’s what I expect, I’m too lazy to do so and nor do I feel any requirement, after all I’ve got some ‘idiots’ who really understand this (blessed) and you too, go on & search for these ‘detectives’, because without them your existence isn’t worth it. So, bring it on…!!!

Don't expect...just firmly believe

The title might seem to you as boring, but wait for a while. It might change your perception. Everything happens for a purpose but understanding its worth is what depends upon you.

Recently, we were busy with our exams, loads of pressure upon our shoulders and by any means we managed to invest a large stock of time towards studies for a better return, and why not because after all it's the extreme time when once in a blue moon we put a close look towards our books, at least for the sake of exams. Now just go back in time and think about it, what we actually thought before getting ready for this mind boggling task? The answer is simple, but complex to understand. Some of us will think that it was our high expectations which made us do so but its not. Actually, your 'believe' of getting beneficial returns out of it was your main motive, getting good grades being the aim. Even i can be questioned that who am i to decide what others think or feel? Again the answer is with me, as i love being questioned. It's all about recognising your inner 'you'. Somewhat the answer is within you, but even understanding yourself is another challenging task. So getting back to the topic now, lets explore some other side of it.

It won't be an exaggeration if i even say that your likings/dislikings and followings also affect the strength of firm believe. For instance, we all connect to each other on Facebook, no doubt in it. Actually what my perception about all of us being there is that Facebook itself is the output of believe that we may like to share our thoughts, likings, etc. over that space. We even 'expect' that people like us will be there and try out different approaches to get in contact with them but it's also an undeniable fact that expectation leads to disappointments at times. Some of us would eagerly wait for replies and reactions upon posts, messages, comments and excite ourselves for it which is a natural human behaviour towards such situations, again “expectations”. But if it doesn't happen, then it pinches you deeply somewhere that you question yourself. Seriously, it happens and I'm not talking of all but just in general. So even at this social platform, believes play a pivotal role in keeping an erect mindset.

No one knows what's gonna happen next, nor youngsters care about  it...free-living generation we are. So why to be serious then or smash our head for it? But just gear up and believe that what you do satisfies you, is better for you and forget about what others expect, again I say that expectation leads to dissatisfaction/disappointment. Maybe I'm new to this space  here but I'll make a space for myself, adjust with others and that's what i believe and so we all do have some glimpses of such believes in our instinct, which needs to be handled practically. So, keep believing.....