Why to carry a load on back? Neither we're meant for it nor we are made to fit in with it. A bag full of hatred, doubts, discomfort, foul play, misinterpretation and anything harsh than this, is carried by us throughout our life, with no dumping site to let that trash be thrown.

May it be your thousand deeds that strikes right but if a single deed seemed uncomfortable to one, be ready for a zero being slammed at your face, irrespective of whatever feathers you had on your hat. The 'one' mentioned above are those who overexpect & try to place themselves in the superiormost order which they don't deserve to be. They over expect to be a database containing every whereabout.

Since not all skin products are meant all skin types, you rely on some which won't cause pigmentation & allergies, same is the case with people around you, you rely on some at times but if you won't at times, they'll not leave a stone unturned to turn as bitter as they can.  And the harshest part here too is, you can't be the best for all & so the load on your back is as good as your constant companion, with you forever, all you can do is, be selective at the very initial stage before opening up whether whom are you counting upon & is he/she worthy of listening, understanding or even they are just masters of making fuss around.

Be a 'Heera & find a 'Johri' for yourself.

Hopefully a skin care product won't sue you for it, you can count upon it, i guarantee it.

Silence can't be an answer all the time, besides the fact that silence too needs a bunch of guts to roll with. Sometimes it's your weapon, sometimes it's your hopelessness. But a constant fear traps you within. A fear of losing a long running battle with yourself, that not to lose anyone.

Maybe we won't shout aloud what state of mind we are into, all we can do is to put over a pretending smile which at least won't let anyone to judge you. That fear wasn't a part of our weakness but our strength to combat, our confidence of making the right choice and to live with it forever. Remaining silent was a solution and not something which could easily take hold of our veins, just 'coz you don't want your faith to tumble down.

If he/she mean a lot to you, probably we remain calm and composed 'coz somewhere down the line you know what it should be & what it shouldn't be. It might challenge your choice at times, or rather some elements enter the scenario which may prove you wrong or situations develop in such a way which may try to shatter you deep within. Till the time you're able to understand them, you are on the right track for sure but if you aren't, maybe a certain disconnection has been welcomed in.

Better you interact for every piece of misunderstanding being propagated, since till the time you're true, no other element can pose to cross-by or penetrate your bond.

"Kuch toh log kahenge, Logon ka kaam hai kehna" All we should count upon is what understanding you have within each other and not what others have been judging.

Understood To Be Misunderstood

Definitely no one's born so perfect to be able to express everytime what's going within the four-walled world of your instinct and probably these days the window meant for yourself to open up has become a passage to pollute the divine, pure and sparkling state of mind.

The value is decreasing, whether it be our rupee, whether it be gold or whether it be 'you'. Someday or the other we'll find that we're being treated the same as if we're the one's flowing in the mainstream, even if we are not. One face of the coin says to be absorbent and act calm towards every filth you're dipped into but to me, the other face of the coin asks to be a rebellion. Rebellion not in the sense to harm someone but for shedding off the filth we're dipped into. Believing that we're all mere puppets to be played with, excuse me! These stereotypic thoughts better fit in a trash can.

What my point is, why is everyone pushed into the pit of filth? Why is everyone sketched under the canvas of doubtfulness? It's rather too surprising to find yourself being placed next to someone whom you adore so much, respect from the depth of heart and undoubtedly you find yourself complete but the circumstances makes to worry a little that is the correct message being delivered to him/her or it's got deviated in the midway itself just because others found a factor of jealousy or took it as a play thing, which was actually a matter too sensitive.

Being honest to your own selves won't work. It's better to let your 'important halves' know about what 'drama' are they dragged into rather then zipping your mouth up and let the 'fungus' grow many folds since being true to someone is the master key to unlock the door to a successful relation till eternity. Will try to make myself more clear in the days coming by.