Is it easy to maintain a balance between your personal problems and studies.....?

 

While writing this blog I was in Dehradun. After a long time I met my family ones, relatives and neighbors as well. As usual I felt bad when I was going back going back to Gandhidham and that's human nature that whenever you're fond of something you can't get away from it. Then just think what will be your condition when one of your loved ones gets in a severe problem and needs your helps???.....surely you'll give your best but when we talk about making balance between your work or studies and condition like I mentioned??

I as a student will talk about condition of studies. At Dehradun I met one of my aunts nearby but on the other side very much frank with them. So we were talking about the same topic then only she told me about the problem her children faced. In year 2003, her husband faced a tragic accident so it became her daughter's responsibility to take care of him but also her 12th standard exams, so what she did was that after her father felt sleepy or busy watching TV, she went in other room at hospital and studied for it but scored well. Now let me tell you about the situation what my aunt's son.

He was in 8th standard that time and also took care of his father. But during 9th standard, he passed through a deep depression as he got to know that his father's leg will be amputated which even affected his 10th's board exams result, failed in that and after 11th standard he decided not to carry on with his studies as what he thought was that now his only work is to help his father at shop, loading unloading the medicines and only thought of making money.....and left studies behind.

This story you'll find little bit boring but what I intended to say is that how some can even manage to complete their goals in tough conditions whereas some just try to get away from it.....giving excuses out of their problems but that's not the solution. Such type of condition is sometimes common. Thing which can help them to get rid of it is moral support; you may find it weird but it's true. In conditions like this it is important to have support from family members but also there should be a communication between them. These are some small aspects which can help us even in major or minor problems. So here I'll also try to sort out some problems which we all face in our life but till then make sure don't get diverted from your goals..... :-)