Making new friends and being frank with them is accepted by
almost all of us in today's age. But it can't be neglected if anyone tries to
cross his/her limits, which are regarded as anti-social elements, prevailing in
the society today. One such incident was witnessed by me and being a blogger,
writing becomes my only weapon, which will cause a diverse effect on
individuals.
As I mentioned in my previous blog that few days back I was
in Surat for Indian International Model United Nations. I became frank with
most of my school fellows, who were mostly senior than me. The incident is
quite weird but as caring and understanding for the person concerned, I find it
important to share also for more and more awareness.
It took place on the very first day of the conference with
one of my seniors, that while the proceedings of the committee were going on,
she received a piece of paper with a "proposal" for her...now that I
don't need to explain. After knowing about it I was little bit shocked by the
way but creating no obstacles for someone, I tried to remain quite. Same day in
hotel at night, I was busy researching out where again something uncertain took
place. I found a bunch of students, seniors actually, passing comments on her.
It was the time I wasn't able to resist myself where tried to sort out this.
The very next day, a boy totally ran out of his limits and
in front of all he tried to propose her, at last which was rejected but an
embarrassing moment for her, which I as a blogger understand. I regard her or
rather praise her that by not keeping this thing to her, shared with our
teacher escorts and with us. It's true that no such action would have been
taken at time but an example was set by her. Even in this condition, parents
support is must, which I found was there which can double or triple the
confidence to stand in such circumstances.
Still she took it lightly and moved on which itself is a
great thing. One thing which revolves around my mind is that today's generation
is not that which keep its feelings only to them, but they try socializing
themselves and breaking the stereotypes as well. Where I also think that they
bear the strength to put up their voice. It depends on an individual whether
how frank they are, how attractive they look and how systematic and diplomatic
at times they are or are they understanding that how to remain unaffected or to
get rid of such people. These are some of the key factors without which's
balance it's difficult to remain dominant in society. All kind of people are
there in our society, some are caring....some are just careless; some try to
remove anti-social elements and some try to spread this "Virus" among
us.....for which some "Anti-viruses" are required which can't be
prepared in labs but by us itself. If suppose the person concerned, about whom
I'm talking about reads it......it's my salute to her and will appreciate her
for not taking it seriously, sharing it with all of us but making this incident
fly away in air, which I want to be taken into consideration by all.......for a
better living culture in urban as well as rural cultures.......!!!! :-)
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