'Sarcasm Society', a new way to understand the world...

Now I'm very 'used to' listen that 'I write only Serious! Serious! Serious!’ What they think is true but what to do if my mind can think up to this extent only. Even some expect me to write on comic elements as well, which is either a 'head-banging' task for me. Moving ahead now this 'serious & silly' person is up with the most 'common' thing which people face in day to day life, but still throwing some light over it is required but I suppose for some it'll be 'uncommon'.

In this 'techy' world, all are well-versed with gadgets and other mind-blowing stuffs which puts you up on the 'web' of 'Online Societies' I must say...which includes all your social sites,etc. But surprisingly even in this 'easy-to-access' world, no one knows what's going all around their country or abroad except who accepted/rejected their friend requests or who shared/liked/commented on their pics. The only way which comes across is that obliviousness to have a drop-off. It's usual that on news channels or other sources like YouTube, etc., certain 'sarcastic' remarks are made over well or evil deeds all around by politicians or well-known ones, by the use of cartoons and animations. And even it's a truth that we rather enjoy those funny remarks which indirectly puts an up a 'crystal-clear' reflection of the original conditions.

Young mind is a 'puzzle' basically which remains 'unsolved'. By the term 'Sarcasm Society', I completely focus on 'knocking’ the ‘doors’ of ‘locked’ senses which entirely affect you in an indirect manner, but makes you more cognizant in a fun way. Human nature says that if you open an option of merriment and serious way, that individual will surely select merriment and that's what the term's hidden significance is. It's damn true that no one likes to go through an in-depth serious analysis of events moving-by, so we all expect a quick move over for which sarcasm is the best source. It's not that being sarcastic is as easy as rolling off a log, logical efforts at its utmost level has to be made. It's not that banging around will bring up a solution...they need to think in such a way that others bang their head in thinking about the same.

Here if we talk about efforts so I even want to mention that hunter approach needs to be pushed up. A limit in the language to be set is necessary, which I find at times is crossed by those who are active at social sites....but most importantly it's required that things should not seem to be aggressive or dumb even. At present if we talk about, then there are only some who tend to be so. In general, there's nothing like sarcasm society but it's my instinct which says and not only mine but of other thinker's that it's a 'thought balloon', which needs a lot to be 'filled in' and an open 'air' to 'float' but mind that a small 'pinch' will make it 'burst'. And I'm totally sure that it will be a 'milestone' of achieve in the society wide with which boredom in social issues of society will be removed, willingness to be aware will increase and last but not the least things will strike more to your mind and not to your mood...and also will keep you updated except of Facebook, whatsapp..... :-P

#Respect for money => #Respect for Life....!!!!

It's 'Money'...the thing for which today a man is ready to take risk, it's 'Money' for which a man is ready to cheat anyone and also it's 'Money' for which a man sacrifices his valuable time which he is supposed to spend with his loved ones......This is the thing which can either be a part of an individual's hard work or someone's dishonesty. That's even very much true that money can't have a particular definition, but in simple it's a medium which enables a person is able to have his bread and butter.

If we talk about the olden times, even with large family’s people used to live happily on a low salary because the whole matter revolves around the requirements, which I must say have evolved till this period. Many of us often listen through teachers and parents that 'money isn't much important'.....but this sentiment clearly fails today and becomes 'money is much important'. In the time where just for an extra ticket you need to pay hundreds of rupees in a bus....then what about your education or standard of living, it's obvious that it will get affected. This is the reason that these Other Backward Classes, poverty and such other terms came into existence. But the thing to be noticed is that no one has any respect for money today. See that when a student of 6th or 7th standard demands for his/her personal phone, that too crosses even 10-15 thousands, so what you expect that will there be any sense of respect in anyone's mind. Then even you can think what all demands their parents need to fulfill afterwards...

I belong to middle class family, I've seen the hard work around me, I know what sacrifices are to be made, what all needs to be suffered and for what purpose?? Just to make us prosperous. Even my father says that money is the thing which will come and go, but it's your way of your thinking, which will once come and will never go. Now, just for purpose of job he lives separately and there are many who see the same atmosphere and believe me....those who come out of such atmosphere are the one who are well-versed with ethical and moral values of 'needs' and know proper utilization of money as well. I don't criticize anyone here but talking about the higher society, they don't try to understand that what hard work is needed to earn your living, but want they want is that their demands to fulfilled anyhow. But even the question which raises here is that without understanding the worth...is it justified to earn it??

I agree that even my needs have changed now, which is natural that here I find a need of gadgets, a modern lifestyle which is just to bring an augment in living standard....but that too isn't a burden over someone because that too is a part of need. Now getting apart from urban conditions...let’s move to rural ones. They are the one who have so much potential to prove them but platform isn't provided. In turn, at times I must say, a 'game' starts with some of the lives...a 'horror' game actually. Such people are forced to work at circuses to entertain people with acts of fire, etc., even performing stunts at shows, movies where some of them lose their precious lives. Sometimes it makes them be a part of thefts and robberies or even betting, etc. And some due to frustration commit suicides.

This example projects a clear image for all of us that what all can be done to earn money or what limits they are forced to crossed for backward ones. So, prevention is better than cure always, and then preventing such conditions can take place when you yourself are concerned about it. It's not that you run before money, but somewhere down the line it's important to understand the worth of it. It's even true that money doesn't grow over trees, there's someone's hard work behind it. So need of the hour is that have respect for money, which will definitely make your life as well as other's life prosperous, paving a way for world to be a better place.

Self-Dependency.....creates a barrier between children and parents???

We live in a time where there is a 'cut-head' competition for all the things around, whether it be for exams, gadgets and not only here but in the international markets where top-level companies, who excel in inflating economy, fight among themselves for becoming the superior one.

But one important aspect which plays a key role in climbing on the 'ladder' of life is becoming self-dependent. It's not possible that every time there will be someone to support you, it's better to come up of this 'liability' and prove what you are....or what potential do you have in yourself. When an individual uplifts him/herself out of this dependency, then they try to cooperate with the conditions on their own. Means in simple words, parent's burdens are taken away. You may often find students saying that 'I want to walk on path created by my own', that's one of the examples of the thinking among all of us. But, there are still some of the parents who think that their child is getting away from them or they aren't feeling the importance of them. Same condition is with me as well, I don't bother my parents much for anything. Even at times I try to hide my tensions or feelings, which I usually do till now, but it had an adverse effect over my parents as they thought that I am trying to be as independent as I can but they most of the time they try to understand even.  But the need of the hour is that things need to be made clear to them.

It's not that we as the young generation tries to become 'self-dependent' at our own will, but it's the 'need' which made us do so and which even I feel is correct. We all envisage that we'll become well-enough to be able to everything that others do. What my point of view over it is that if we tackle more and more circumstances or even 'suffer' from it, then it makes us bold enough to face it off. But I don't deny that in some 'exceptions', the younger generation tries to take benefit of what freedom they've got and maybe that's the reason parents at times think 'weird' about it. I believe we should become self-dependent, but it a balanced 'ratio' that it doesn't tries to overcome the relations between you and your loved ones. It's only the strength from your loved ones which makes you feel confidant and take your stand in front.

Even I think that word 'self-dependent' doesn't suit to the ones of my age because it's only applicable, as per my view, when you become something in your life, when you don't need to think several times to fulfill your wishes but when you are well-off to support others as well. We all are here with different perspectives and that's what we call today's young life, we try to compete with our elder ones, no matter what it be but still they try be in the race, in 'each' and 'every' point of life but the exception here is the hard work which we don't want to do.......we want to 'shine' but don't want to work for getting the 'charm' first. So I think, still we need to gain up more potential to touch the heights, so better strengthen up the base and be the one who you are......

My experiments....whose solutions just need logical thinking...no science needed...

Experiments.....a very 'usual' part in a person's life, which can either be in the form of experiments with apparels, style of living or blah blah. But the thing which I did was something really ‘weird’, it might have blown somebody's head due to my continuous emphasis over one single thing. Hope so that nobody took it in a negative manner but still, I found it important so that's why I did the same. So here's all that 'unusual' stuff!!!!!!!

Now talking about my very first experiment which I did... i.e. asking my female friends on Facebook regarding their phone number for the purpose of whatsapp. I felt a little bit 'uncomfortable' in doing so because I never ever tried to tease anyone. Seriously this trap worked, where some even tried to anticipate that. Not mentioning the name actually, but there were many who just gave their contact numbers without asking the purpose. Might be the reason was that they knew me....but still I don't regard it as a correct step. I appreciate those who tried to prevent it. Whether anyone understands it or not, but the thing which I want to reflect is that the experiment which I did here can even be did with evil intention, at that point of time what will they do?? They then get prank calls, disturbing messages and even threats!!! Today, it's such a time where there is no importance of trust, i.e. don’t blindly trust anyone, it's for all of us to take care about. Even I say that there are only some who are trustworthy.....so select those only whom you find caring towards you. I confidently say because there are many who have faith over me. :-P

Now moving towards another one, for which most of my friends criticized me, it was all about making fun of others or in other sense being nuisance. You may find it ridiculous, but my intention was just to test out an individual's limit. Maybe I am wrong in some sense but, who can stop me then :-P. Here, there were some who took it lightly and just got through the flow but as you all know exceptions are always present. These 'exceptions' get totally irritated but never try to understand the thing as much you'll get irritated, more the person will get chance to tease you. Same happened in this case, but the most interesting part of it was that even some of my teachers became a part of it.

My focus is to put up some sense in them that it's not that you'll always find the atmosphere suitable for them. So it's a starting for those who believe in it and keeping aside their like or dislikes here. Now onwards I'll stop all these work as it even causes difficulties to others, but will now try to think over new traps....so my fellows be ready for it... :-P

Being shy somewhere reserved or loyal....is it acceptable according to today's time???

After just reading the title itself.....I want to clarify that this blog is related to those who are also like me, but still feel that there's a need to open up. Most of the time people regard me as rude or full of attitude, just because I don't involve much and that too with some 'exceptions'. Even I accept that due to my nervousness at times I act weird or according to others 'over react'. Fortunately or unfortunately, no one can just escape this society, i.e. we have to be here only and nowhere else.

Many a times I get these comments that this shyness of mine is the only factor which spoils my personality....otherwise everything's fine :-P. Even my teacher’s say that a being knowledgeable is ok but today's time is mostly for those who know how to express their selves. One of my teacher escorts during the Surat trip also realized that there is a need to change my attitude towards public speaking and she was the only one who made me speak for the first time in front of teachers and parents. It's true that no one waits for you and everybody thinks of him/herself, it's for us how we create our importance in a gathering or community. Only those get preferences the most that are good at expressing their selves, mix up with others and keeping aside attitude of theirs.

Even I noticed that this thing is common in those who are keen in studies, where they are only centered over it and not on other activities. While talking about those who don't have interest in studies i.e. Careless prefer to have more fun and that's the reason that they even excel in outdoor activities or even Music, Arts and Dance. I don't criticize anyone and I say that both of them are correct at their stands but I personally believe that we all need to have a combination of both, where mostly support of teachers is needed because it depends over them that what image they put up of any student in their mind or whether they try to encourage them for it, and I suppose yes.

Being loyal is one of the best quality for which a person is regarded. But today I find people taking benefit of it. No one tries to be thankful for it, but think that he/she will always be towards the positive side of all where there is a need to understand the original aspect of the person or what’s his motive behind it. Even I suffered from it at times and I believe that be helpful but not too much that a person tries to overcome you. Still there's a time for us to improve and let's not be scared of what people will think about you.....just try to live your life in the utmost manner you can!!!!! Carry on...... :-)