Self-Dependency.....creates a barrier between children and parents???

We live in a time where there is a 'cut-head' competition for all the things around, whether it be for exams, gadgets and not only here but in the international markets where top-level companies, who excel in inflating economy, fight among themselves for becoming the superior one.

But one important aspect which plays a key role in climbing on the 'ladder' of life is becoming self-dependent. It's not possible that every time there will be someone to support you, it's better to come up of this 'liability' and prove what you are....or what potential do you have in yourself. When an individual uplifts him/herself out of this dependency, then they try to cooperate with the conditions on their own. Means in simple words, parent's burdens are taken away. You may often find students saying that 'I want to walk on path created by my own', that's one of the examples of the thinking among all of us. But, there are still some of the parents who think that their child is getting away from them or they aren't feeling the importance of them. Same condition is with me as well, I don't bother my parents much for anything. Even at times I try to hide my tensions or feelings, which I usually do till now, but it had an adverse effect over my parents as they thought that I am trying to be as independent as I can but they most of the time they try to understand even.  But the need of the hour is that things need to be made clear to them.

It's not that we as the young generation tries to become 'self-dependent' at our own will, but it's the 'need' which made us do so and which even I feel is correct. We all envisage that we'll become well-enough to be able to everything that others do. What my point of view over it is that if we tackle more and more circumstances or even 'suffer' from it, then it makes us bold enough to face it off. But I don't deny that in some 'exceptions', the younger generation tries to take benefit of what freedom they've got and maybe that's the reason parents at times think 'weird' about it. I believe we should become self-dependent, but it a balanced 'ratio' that it doesn't tries to overcome the relations between you and your loved ones. It's only the strength from your loved ones which makes you feel confidant and take your stand in front.

Even I think that word 'self-dependent' doesn't suit to the ones of my age because it's only applicable, as per my view, when you become something in your life, when you don't need to think several times to fulfill your wishes but when you are well-off to support others as well. We all are here with different perspectives and that's what we call today's young life, we try to compete with our elder ones, no matter what it be but still they try be in the race, in 'each' and 'every' point of life but the exception here is the hard work which we don't want to do.......we want to 'shine' but don't want to work for getting the 'charm' first. So I think, still we need to gain up more potential to touch the heights, so better strengthen up the base and be the one who you are......