I always say that life is full of uncertain consequences.
You never know that the 'step' you are taking can even bring a 'flood' of funny
and ambivalent events. One such possible place where these things can take
place is Facebook, a social street. "Few days" back I had a meet with
an "emotional fool”, who won't let his 'old' sort of thinking move
forward. This introduction might have projected a partial image of the sequence
which took place but still I'll try to explain.
So the whole fuss started with a comment on a particular pic
which was uploaded on Facebook by one of my female friend, senior she is, it
was a bit direct comment but was just in a light, mirthful manner. Even the
reply was in the same sense and so I continued with it and that's how this
'uncertain' event began. He thought that I was interfering in her life, so
ridiculous that was. So it was the beginning of a sophisticated comment war
between him and i. Where I continued in the sense of keeping respect of him to
clear his misconception regarding the matter but that bloody fellow crossed all
such limits. That continued for a while but then she came in tried to cool down
the matter. Well it hadn't affected me at all as this stupid fuss wasn't
supposed to be taken that seriously but it has raised some thoughts in my mind,
after all I have a thoughtful mind.
Does these social networking sites really are intended to be
used for being social, I doubt. If people are so much worried and caring about
others, then it's quite obvious that some sort of anti-social activities
shouldn't take place around us. But I feel that such things which are happening
around, where people get enraged with even some comments are just pretending to
be the one who they aren't. Maybe in some condition it's wrong, but it's mostly
happening today. They feel that they can do anything, can talk about anything
they like, which is mostly with their female friends and what they expect is
that no other should do so. People like the one whom I talked about intend to
put their rights over others and if others do so, then the condition like I
faced occurs.
I still feel pity for that person, who argued on such a
funny issue, and who actually had no control over his emotions that time, may
god bless him with some handful of controlling skills and good thoughts... :-P.
So I wish such conditions should not occur with others and try to get away from
those who try to put their rights over others, which may block that person's
way out. Make sure your approach should not hurt someone's feelings. It's good
that you maintain a sense of contact with friends, whether male or female but
never try to obligate someone's path ahead towards getting social. If he/she
has no problem with the sort of activities taking place or if they aren't
feeling offended, then it's disgusting if someone tries to come in between and
show off a caring attitude of theirs and if so, then better learn to tackle
conditions and not to complicate it.
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