Saturday, November 30, 2013

What an incident...!!!! But I suppose I predicted it before.....

Making new friends and being frank with them is accepted by almost all of us in today's age. But it can't be neglected if anyone tries to cross his/her limits, which are regarded as anti-social elements, prevailing in the society today. One such incident was witnessed by me and being a blogger, writing becomes my only weapon, which will cause a diverse effect on individuals.

As I mentioned in my previous blog that few days back I was in Surat for Indian International Model United Nations. I became frank with most of my school fellows, who were mostly senior than me. The incident is quite weird but as caring and understanding for the person concerned, I find it important to share also for more and more awareness.

It took place on the very first day of the conference with one of my seniors, that while the proceedings of the committee were going on, she received a piece of paper with a "proposal" for her...now that I don't need to explain. After knowing about it I was little bit shocked by the way but creating no obstacles for someone, I tried to remain quite. Same day in hotel at night, I was busy researching out where again something uncertain took place. I found a bunch of students, seniors actually, passing comments on her. It was the time I wasn't able to resist myself where tried to sort out this.

The very next day, a boy totally ran out of his limits and in front of all he tried to propose her, at last which was rejected but an embarrassing moment for her, which I as a blogger understand. I regard her or rather praise her that by not keeping this thing to her, shared with our teacher escorts and with us. It's true that no such action would have been taken at time but an example was set by her. Even in this condition, parents support is must, which I found was there which can double or triple the confidence to stand in such circumstances.

Still she took it lightly and moved on which itself is a great thing. One thing which revolves around my mind is that today's generation is not that which keep its feelings only to them, but they try socializing themselves and breaking the stereotypes as well. Where I also think that they bear the strength to put up their voice. It depends on an individual whether how frank they are, how attractive they look and how systematic and diplomatic at times they are or are they understanding that how to remain unaffected or to get rid of such people. These are some of the key factors without which's balance it's difficult to remain dominant in society. All kind of people are there in our society, some are caring....some are just careless; some try to remove anti-social elements and some try to spread this "Virus" among us.....for which some "Anti-viruses" are required which can't be prepared in labs but by us itself. If suppose the person concerned, about whom I'm talking about reads it......it's my salute to her and will appreciate her for not taking it seriously, sharing it with all of us but making this incident fly away in air, which I want to be taken into consideration by all.......for a better living culture in urban as well as rural cultures.......!!!! :-)


Young minds on 'Fire'.....

Generally, people don't believe me that even I can write such blogs and some of them with deep thoughts. That's the thing about which even I worry.....sometimes my fellow mates doubt on me regarding it and I understand that students of my age won't have any interest in such things which is major issue. Okay Okay.....now let's move on the topic which is my priority as well.

Recently I was one of the students who were selected for Model United Nations, a simulation of the original United Nations conference. Researching and researching whole day long became habit those days and along with school chores on the head. Here one thing I always wanted to say but my shy nature comes between the path as most of my friends know that......I wanted to thank my 'extra-ordinary' teachers who had faith on me that I'll be able to have a face-off with such situation due to my immense hard work. For this I'll always be grateful to them but still I think I disappointed them a bit but don't know the reason why, for which I apologize.

During our committee sessions, we were there at Surat, Gujarat, for which I along with 27 others had a long journey which will remain in my instinct for life, just because of fun moments, new learning and how to cooperate with each other. Even it was an opportunity to know people personally rather than their diplomatic phase at school where I seniors were the one with who I was and even they were comfortable with me, hope so:-P but still believes. The sessions were just like a parliament.....but of foreign manner I.e. Calm and silent and not like the Indian one. We, as delegates of different countries tried to keep our views how to grow up the economy, where at times we opposed some of the delegates for their views. All the things were systematic by the way, just opposite of my own way of working.

It was obvious that 'politics' will be played at such events and it happened too. Taking sides of each other according to the 'deals' done to get votes in hand among them became common, where they did actually not know the negative or positive aspects behind it. Huh!!!! Disgusting it was but it depends on us that how we keep ourselves away from such incidents. Some of my fellow delegates, or either say from my school were a little ambitious, who at times lost faith over their self and gave up but thanks to our extremely frank and such understanding teacher escorts who taught them and even us to have believe in ourselves and never to give up.

Minds were seriously on 'fire' where limits of our conversation skills, understanding and at last knowledge were tested. Now it became our responsibility to make school's youngsters aware of it and even to attract them so that more and more participation can be seen. It's good that today's school and most importantly teachers have awakened now, where trying to enhance our interaction with world is found a crucial task which is either true. But it's time for me to make myself prepared for it.......till then be tuned!!!!!



Thursday, November 14, 2013

Seniors know everything!!!!!!

Today we are living in such a surrounding where distractions are much more than inspirations. Its resultant is lack of concentration everywhere. Not only I believe but even our 'seniors' support this sentiment.

An incident took place a day before.....where one of our school's ex-head boy made a visit to my class. We thought that he'll just have some hi-hello and leave but who knew that he was all aware about us and a new chapter would be added up to our mind i.e. 'The improvements needed in us'. He just started off with some questions so that we can be frank with him but after this he moved to the original topic.....a sudden decrease in the results.

Here he targeted the distractions that most of the students suffer with, like social media, relationships and all which even he understands but also mentioned that all things have a right time. Also he emphasized over time management that adequate time an individual has but depends over how he/she uses it. But I also want to mention that nowadays the because of homework itself the whole schedule gets disturbed so nothing can be done here.

Discussions over the examination can't be left over......the nervousness; blank minds after seeing the paper were focused the most. Here attitude and over confidence was criticized at the foremost level. In my age group such things doesn’t matter much to them…ignorance can be seen but still thanks to that person who m gave a start to it. These things reflected his concern regarding us and confirmed my thinking that seniors are not that ignorant and we should regard the knowledge given to us by them. There were some who took his wordings just for granted but it strengthened my believe that if followed the path which he depicted for all.....surely a good outcome will come as resultant.


Friday, November 8, 2013

A really 'Silly' thing

People don't generally have blind faith over others except some of them. The most exceptions can be seen in the case of predictions made by priests and sages regarding any of the things, whether it is for future or present. Here I have an interesting topic to talk about.

Last month......a man named Shobhan Sarkar predicted that 1000 kg. Gold will be discovered from Unnao, a place in Uttar Pradesh. Here the 'craziest' thing was that even government took it an event of concern and Archaeological Survey of India was given the instructions to dig out at that specific place but the result which came out was just old utensils and other belongings.........and no sign of any gold, creating nuisance out there with the wastage of money, time and resources and even loss of faith over him.

It represents the 'Incredible' India. Where government just in the influence of a normal man starts digging out.....on the other hand it never ever listens to citizen's voice but after listening after this gold.........such incident took place. Ignorance of government towards people is common, but I never expected such stupidity from them. It also teaches us that these predictions and superstitions are just for sake of mind of some extremely crazy minds and a way of making money. Maybe....it was a just to gain attention of others. But one thing it proved that government can listen to people if tried in any such way....till then think of something like this :-P.......


Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Moving ahead on Gandhian Principle's....possible today??

First of all it has been a long time I haven't been in contact with this blog and it will take some time to regain the viewing rate again. It doesn't matter how much time it takes but the thing is that do people have a faith over my blogs. Now let's move on towards the topic.
 
Few days back.....Mahatma Gandhi's partner during his independence struggle i.e. His Charkha was put into an auction and was sold in around Rs. 1 crore. It sounds weird that our country's heritages are being sold on auctions. But this event brought a deep thought in my mind. Mahatma's belongings were the one which made us realize his motives & values that he wanted to be kept in mind by people. Now as his things are being auctioned....will our future generations be able to remember his values and the main thing which lies behind all this is that now even we aren't interested to follow him.

What even students of my age think is that it's just a joke to follow his morals because they find it 'silly'. And it's even difficult to move over with his principles as we don't have that strength to co-op up with it. Many people during some events like hunger strikes held at Delhi....compared social personalities like Anna Hazare to Gandhi but the truth is that no one can even get back to such a level. I even put up a question that is Mahatma Gandhi just left to be compared with all??? Nothing can be much disgraceful than it. People at Congress always talk about Gandhi's, Nehru's dreams but these all goes floating. 

He had such a tough life throughout, but yes he was at times criticized for his deeds but today, at present the condition what I see is that all are worried about their own future and they find social service an odd job.Today even they are scared of taking risks and putting them in such an act, which is somewhere due to the narrow thinking spreading nowadays....so it's a difficult one to encourage people to follow his principles and also it relies on the people....

I would like to add that if not followed such motives, still country will move on with no doubt. But the dissatisfaction I find is that no one is eager to even know Gandhi's background so which states that whether someone praises him or not but still there will be many who will criticize him forever but a sense of respect to be maintained then.