What to do when you've nothing to do..??

This month's starting was even the welcome note for students in their new stage and for the corporate as well, #financialyear2014-15. We say 'starting to be such that the event becomes a milestone', partially true but not applicable everywhere as such. Anyways, these days literally can't be expressed where you may have something to do but won't be satisfied with it. Now let's go further in it.

Human psychology says that "interest is our godfather", in other words your interests are everything in life. Today you may not feel like accepting it but it's a bitter truth of life. Like for example, we have many fellows who just get bored of mathematics, even I'm one of them :- P and they are just taking it on and on and get satisfied with whatever output they get. There are other disliking in subjects as well, but the thing which I've noticed is that even once you take over your disliked subject, you'll find that after a while you'll think of banging your head, as you actually have no interest in so. Again an example I would like to give, like few days ago, I had nothing in my mind to write on. I was continuously in search for it and what I've realized is that if you have a passion or mind set or particular target, you definitely find a way out for it and no matter what your circumstances are forcing you to do.

You'll think that am I getting off my path...am I getting deviated from the topic?? Of course not. Again, for example, if we read our wicky-wecky textbooks, it seems like "oh god! What a boring bundle it is" but if we go through it in magazines or somewhere, it becomes interesting. The thing is that textbooks always reminds us of school atmosphere and keeps us in a limited pack of interest, but when it comes to magazines or even at times novels, it takes us to an another world. Here along with the topic's deep knowledge, you get a lot of info apart from it which actually doesn't feel like burden, which are in form of pics, puzzles. My conscience says that it's better to read such magazines in the time when you've nothing to do, at least the time will be constructively used. It's better to get stuck to it, rather than just giggling-jiggling here and there! But for the case of mathematics, nothing can be done as such and in this case your head will be grilled off with mighty 'identities' and served hot with spicy "algebraic expressions" and a platter full of geometry and menstruation along with dips of trigonometry :-P So it's time for me to think of something to do, till then stay tuned.....

What if you aren't able to defend yourself...???

There come many conditions in your daily life where you may not have any sort of interference in a certain event but you're the one who is put up as a culprit. At schools, you may ignore such things in friends but at times it may affect your social image. And also sometimes, that if you're found with a person who is disliked by a 'bunch' due to some mischief or uncertain activity ,  so others would make 'straight and simple' sense that the specific person is too involved or related to such things and see the irony, you can't even defend yourself.

Being straight to it, I want to say that today 'faith', 'believe' is a great matter, which may be as strong as 'concrete' or as simple as to burst a 'balloon'. It may be an earning of years and years, by the positive attitude of yours but it takes a minute to break that 'believe'. At times you may doubt yourself that weren't you able to develop even trust over you. Quite weird but seems like an event which takes place every day. One such incident took place with me when I was in 7th standard. I used to be given the charges of taking care of the home works every day. At such an age, it used to delight me a lot and continuously I worked hard on keeping this consistency. Mostly I used to take care of the subject social science, as the teacher used to appreciate my knowledge related to it. One fine day, I started suffering from neck stiffness during winters which used to give me a lot of pain, so much that I couldn't even keep my neck straight. But still I managed to attend the school but unfortunately I couldn't take my responsibility for that point of time. With support of one of the friend I managed to talk to my social science teacher about it, as I was a bit shy and nervous to face teachers that time.

And guess what, she started scolding me and questioned my ability to take responsibilities, without giving me a chance to at least tell her the reason, total disgust. From the very next day she started ignoring me, scolding me whenever I wanted to keep my views. But suddenly it even affected my result of cycle tests too. The thing went on for 2 months and fortunately we got a transfer till that time. So you may have got a clear cut idea that how your image may get spoiled within a minute, giving you no chance to speak even. My instinct was shocked by this event. Still I was well enough to tackle the condition by not giving any more stress to myself. Don't know whether it was because of some over expectations about me but let the reason be any, at times it used to hurt me a lot. From that event, I prepared myself how to answer others when you're being blamed and this made me accept that I'm an egoist, and I have no doubt on it. Today the condition is that I literally start debating, arguing over it and other person needs to stop me then. I don't think it’s bad to defend yourself when needed, don't think of what others will think but instead think of maintaining yourself respect, because somewhere an egoist like me is sitting inside you :-P The thing is never let the circumstances overcome your mind, as it might result in a condition which I faced. There’s lot more to share with you, till then stay tuned.

A 'dream'....that may come true but may take away all your 'dreams'

The title seems like I'll tell something about a fairy tale or an event which I saw in dream, but it's not so. This is the thing about which nowadays many technology firms are researching and developing ways to make it true and the thing is making internet the next way to live practically. Online selling/buying, banking and even online buying of properties has opened the doors of possibility that now all your basic commodities, jobs, etc. can just be made online. In other words, the chores which you do practically can actually be done online without much effort, sounds good enough.

 

Basically, we're the starting of a "lazy & lethargic" era, even though we are in a fast moving age but still this lack of time for ourselves has touch such a pinnacle that gave birth to such an e-market all over the world. This has made us too much dependent that it has increased the rate of people who avoid going to markets and outdoors. Then, also you don't need to buy books, fight for tickets, to be in crowds of sale and so on. Watching movies, live television and having face-to-face chat has made it easier to be In touch with outer world. Today people are eager to have internet to provide them with all their chores to be done online. Technology experts say that after 2020, there will be such sites you may feel, touch the products, commodities which are actually online and not in front of you. People have already started earning there and have made possible opportunities where they may earn out of limit, whether by hacking, giving advertisements, running sites, etc. But though it has narrowed our thinking.

In an indirect way, it has restricted our way ahead. Even though some can make an extraordinary use of it but if we talk of overall, we remain up to an extent we have explored on. In other words, suppose if someone uses Gmail as our email service provider, so that person would not think of any other site or rather he would think that even here his need is fulfilled and no need to move to any other such service. Today's anti-social narrow minded thinking is also an output of the same, here suppose a chat is going between a male and a female and so if others get to know about it, it will bring a whole bundle of rumors without even knowing the matter among them. Now I won't elaborate it but seriously, we are moving ahead with high aspirations but actually don't know whether we are using it well, just think over it. Internet is a vast world with never-ending chaos going over it. That's true it has made our reach easier but has created a distance between our demands and values. So better be careful before moving ahead here, otherwise who knows what's waiting for you next??

An ultimate face off.....with a stupid, silly but a hilarious condition.!!!

I always say that life is full of uncertain consequences. You never know that the 'step' you are taking can even bring a 'flood' of funny and ambivalent events. One such possible place where these things can take place is Facebook, a social street. "Few days" back I had a meet with an "emotional fool”, who won't let his 'old' sort of thinking move forward. This introduction might have projected a partial image of the sequence which took place but still I'll try to explain. 

So the whole fuss started with a comment on a particular pic which was uploaded on Facebook by one of my female friend, senior she is, it was a bit direct comment but was just in a light, mirthful manner. Even the reply was in the same sense and so I continued with it and that's how this 'uncertain' event began. He thought that I was interfering in her life, so ridiculous that was. So it was the beginning of a sophisticated comment war between him and i. Where I continued in the sense of keeping respect of him to clear his misconception regarding the matter but that bloody fellow crossed all such limits. That continued for a while but then she came in tried to cool down the matter. Well it hadn't affected me at all as this stupid fuss wasn't supposed to be taken that seriously but it has raised some thoughts in my mind, after all I have a thoughtful mind.

Does these social networking sites really are intended to be used for being social, I doubt. If people are so much worried and caring about others, then it's quite obvious that some sort of anti-social activities shouldn't take place around us. But I feel that such things which are happening around, where people get enraged with even some comments are just pretending to be the one who they aren't. Maybe in some condition it's wrong, but it's mostly happening today. They feel that they can do anything, can talk about anything they like, which is mostly with their female friends and what they expect is that no other should do so. People like the one whom I talked about intend to put their rights over others and if others do so, then the condition like I faced occurs.

I still feel pity for that person, who argued on such a funny issue, and who actually had no control over his emotions that time, may god bless him with some handful of controlling skills and good thoughts... :-P. So I wish such conditions should not occur with others and try to get away from those who try to put their rights over others, which may block that person's way out. Make sure your approach should not hurt someone's feelings. It's good that you maintain a sense of contact with friends, whether male or female but never try to obligate someone's path ahead towards getting social. If he/she has no problem with the sort of activities taking place or if they aren't feeling offended, then it's disgusting if someone tries to come in between and show off a caring attitude of theirs and if so, then better learn to tackle conditions and not to complicate it.